I was a little embarrassed when I first considered signing up here. It felt like something I shouldn’t tell other people about. But you know what? This is the best thing I’ve ever done. I’m divorced. I don’t want to waste my time on empty dates. And I don’t want to see a woman I like run a mile when she finds out that I already have children. Online dating lets you show yourself as you really are. If a woman isn’t interested, she isn’t going to waste your time. And here, I know that all the women I’m talking to are serious about finding a future. For the first time in a long time, that makes me really optimistic for my own future.